聊感性的话题，比如童年回忆、未来抱负，或者女人喜欢的东西。这些话题将会打开她情感的闸门。
1. You should talk about “emotional” topics like childhood memories, future ambitions, or her passions. These conversation topics will open up her emotional floodgates.1.聊感性的话题，比如童年回忆、未来抱负，或者女人喜欢的东西。这些话题将会打开她情感的闸门。
2. Women want a guy who is not afraid to lead her. Never wait for her to dictate what you’ll be talking about.2.女人都喜欢敢于引导自己的男人。永远不要等着她去寻找话题。
3. Pay attention to the non verbal cues a woman is giving you. If you’re standing too close to her, accidentally spitting when you talk, or making her feel uncomfortable in any way… she will send you hints. Pay attention to them.3.注意女人给出的非口头暗示。如果你谈话站得太近，有时唾沫会不小心溅到她，或者做出其他让她感到不舒服的行为……不管怎样她都会有所暗示，所以一定要注意这些信号。
4. Remember this motto “Fun not Funny。” Women are attracted to men who allow them to have fun. Don’t concentrate on having the funniest jokes. Concentrate on showing them the most excitement and enjoyment.4.记住这句至理名言“有趣味而不是恶趣味”。女人总是容易被那些能带给她欢乐的男人所吸引。不要仅仅讲笑话，而应该用你的激情和快乐感染她。
5. Get intimate with her. Women are turned on by men who are not afraid to take a conversation to a personal, intimate level.5.和她套近乎。女人很容易和那些敢于聊私人话题的男人打开话匣子。
6. Remember: Statements over questions. Instead of saying “where did you grow up?” Say “You don’t look like you grew up around here。” This allows you to make observations about her and express your personality.6.记住：观点要多于问题。如果你要问：“你是哪里人”，你可以这样说：“你不像是这一带的人。”这说明你对她观察得很仔细，同时也展示了你的个性。
7. Women love to hear opinions about themselves. Tell her what you observe about her.7.女人喜欢听别人对自己的评价。告诉她你的想法。
8. Avoid complimenting a woman too much. Women are turned off by men who come across as “needy。” If you are complimenting a woman too much she will think you’re trying to impress her. Which will have the opposite effect.8.不要太过于阿谀奉承。如果你显得太心急，很容易浇灭她谈话的欲望。如果你太过恭维，她会认为你是故意讨好，结果会适得其反。
9. If you want to know how to talk to women in a way that doesn’t bore them… Avoid asking too many “interview” style questions. Instead state your opinion about things.9.如果你想知道怎么使谈话不无聊，那就避免一问一答的对话方式。你应该多谈谈自己的见地。
10. Don’t hide your identity. Don’t be afraid to talk about whatever you’re passionate about.10.不要对她隐瞒自己。敢于告诉她你所热爱和追求的东西。
